Yeah, the feeling of getting dumped sucks. There’s no question about that. Sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship.
But the bottom of the line is, the reason why your relationship ended is because your boyfriend has lost attraction for you. No, it wasn’t because you left your dirty laundry around the house or that it’s “him, not you…”, it’s because the foundation of his attraction for you faded – and it’s your fault. There are ways you can “re-attract” your boyfriend (and I’ll get to that in a second), but you have to first understand why he dumped you. Only then will you know how you can get him back.
Abandonment Core Belief Self-Assessment
Before we go any further, it is very important that you take a little quiz. It is called Abandonment Core Belief Self-Assessment.
Your story, infused with memories of your childhood and adolescent experiences including thoughts, emotions, and sensations, won’t change. Efforts to change the past will leave you feeling helpless and depressed. But understanding your story and how it is affecting you in the present is powerful. This is so because you do have the ability to change the present and your relationship patterns going forward.
Identifying your Abandonment Core Belief provides you with the information that you need, to understand what is happening to you when those beliefs get triggered by a situation that reminds you of a painful experience from your childhood.
This will lay the groundwork for a better understanding of how this core belief is guiding your reactions to triggering events that ultimately are causing that your boyfriend has abandoned you (this test is taken from “Love Me Don’t Leave Me” book.)
Watch now this video and learn the 7 Ways To Make Your Ex Think About You Constantly:
The Six Deadly Relationship Sins
Now that you have completed the Abandonment Core Belief Self-Assessment, we can continue with the next part. This is what I like to call The Six Deadly Relationship Sins. Now, I’m not saying that you committed all of these mistakes, but chances are you probably exhibited at least one of these characteristics that pretty much forced your boyfriend to leave you (even if he’s claimed that he left you for another reason).
The First Deadly Sin is a common problem that over half of women have in their relationships -and that’s being way too controlling. Men are repelled by women that put unrealistic restraints on their lives. Though asserting your dominance in a relationship is important, you have to know exactly when “enough is enough”. If you don’t, then don’t be surprised that your boyfriend or husband left you.
The Second Deadly Sin is a bit of a weird one, but always seeking external validity from your boyfriend is a huge attraction-breaker. What does that mean? It means that you constantly seek out your boyfriend’s approval. Asking questions like, “Do you love me? Do I look fat in this dress? Did you have a good time?” repel men. It’s like saying to him that you aren’t confident enough or good enough… and this reeks of insecurity.
The third Deadly Sin is being jealous all the time. Were you jealous that he was flirting with other girls? Maybe he was hanging out with a female friend that you felt a little suspicious about… Well, if you did exhibit this emotion, then again, don’t be surprised that your boyfriend lost some attraction for you. Jealousy is the ultimate form of insecurity.
So now that you know only some of the relationship killers, how do you go about “re-attracting” your boyfriend?
Well, it starts with employing some of my most powerful psychological techniques. Yes, even if things seem completely hopeless right now, you can get him back if you know what you’re doing.
Let me first introduce you who is behind The Ex Factor. I have been waiting for this to be finished for quite some time now. His name is Brad Browning and has created quite a name for himself with his courses. Brad is known as the “Relationship Geek.” He’s been helping thousands of women across the globe win back their ex-boyfriends. His success rate is over 90%.
Now he has released his latest version of the The Ex Factor. This will be ready to launch in about two weeks. Due to the limited number of pieces in the first run, they are taking preorders for these units as they are sure to sell out very quickly. Thanks goodness you landed to this page on time!
Even if you think your relationship with your ex-boyfriend is completely torn, I can bet you there is a way to make him fall hopelessly in love with you again (or at least give you a second chance!)
You see, what a lot of women do when they get dumped is they start begging and pleading. They ask for forgiveness and start begging for second chances. They say “sorry” and “just give me another chance” time after time. If you’re guilty of one of these mistakes, then you better start listening to Brad’s advice… because chances are you’re doing something right now that is pushing your ex further and further away (and into the arms of another girl).
So do yourself a favor and check out Brad’s free video. In it, he’ll tell you exactly how you can get your ex-boyfriend back as soon as possible… and he’ll go over some other Deadly Sins as well.
But you better check out this video quickly because it’s literally so popular that I’m going broke just paying all the web hosting bills!
3 Texts To Send Your Ex Boyfriend To Make Him Come Running Back
If you have reading until this point, I must assume you really want to get your ex boyfriend back, right?
One of the easiest ways you can win your ex boyfriend back is by simply using your cell phone and tapping a bunch of buttons.
Sound absurd? Well, it isn’t… I’ve coached thousands of women around the world to effectively “Text Their Exes Back”… even if they initially thought that it was impossible to ever rekindle any sort of romance with their ex boyfriend.
And today, I’m about to give you some tips on how you can force your boyfriend to come running back to you (and no, he’ll definitely have absolutely no choice in the matter).
This is the first text you can send to get started (but don’t send these text messages yet. At the end of the article, I’ll tell you exactly when to send these texts, because when you send these messages is just as important as what you send).
Text #1 – The “I’m Ok” Text Message:
— “Hey _____, I just want to let you know that I’m 100% cool with the breakup and I thought that it was a good idea. Hope we can still be friends. Talk soon.” —
This text message is great because it conveys all the right messages. For one, you’re letting him know that you were 100% okay with the breakup (you need to make him think this right now). By saying this, you’re pretty much saying to him that you don’t really need him… and this will subconsciously drive him insane. By posing as “just a friend” right now, you start planting my patented ‘Seduction Seeds’ that will eventually cause him to start thinking about you in a sexual way again… and win him back for good. More on this in a bit.
Text #2 – The “No Communication” Text.
— “You’re right. It’s best that we don’t talk right now, but I would like to be friends eventually.” —
This one is a little advanced and you need to know exactly when to send this text… but again, you’re communicating to him that you don’t really need to talk to him. In essence, you’re saying that you don’t really need him to play any role in your life anymore. By doing this, you’ll send the message that you do want to “move on”… and you’ll begin tricking him into thinking that he actually lost you!
Text #3 – The “Jealousy” Text.
— “I think it was a great idea that we decided to start dating other people. I do just want to be friends right now!” —
By saying this, you’re telling him that you’re actually dating other people right now… which will in turn make him jealous. This is a good thing. By saying this, you’re sub-communicating to him that you’re actually wanted by other guys. Men are attracted to women that are wanted by other guys, so by saying that you’re dating around already, you’re pretty much saying that “it’s your loss, mister!”
In the free presentation below, I’ll show you exactly what you can do to make your ex boyfriend want you again. No matter what your situation is –or how badly you’ve messed up since the two of you broke up– I’ll be able to give you a number of useful tips that you can apply immediately.